I am Mistress Black, an international Mistress originally from Spain. My regular cities include London, Milan, Rome, Berlin, and Madrid during my tours.
My interest in BDSM lies especially in the psychological aspect, as I believe it serves as the foundation before any physical practices. I prefer a submissive who truly enjoys their role as a submissive, where torture or humiliation is implemented as a reward rather than punishment. In my opinion, the difference between Mistress and Dominatrix is crucial. While I embody aspects of both, I primarily identify as a Mistress. To me, a Mistress is an exemplary figure, a mentor, a woman you regard as a goddess—someone you feel compelled to worship, not just because she is clad in latex with a threatening whip, but because the desire to worship her becomes intrinsic—something you would do even if she were dressed in pajamas. Positive reinforcement is essential, not negative.
I firmly believe that BDSM, when practiced ethically and without prejudice, can be therapeutic for both parties, fostering complete self-acceptance. People from diverse backgrounds come to me, yet I can generally categorize them into two groups: those driven by hate and those driven by love.
The first group seeks to fill a void, overcome fear, or hide an inner blockage, while the second group seeks self-exploration and genuine understanding. I aim to redirect those in the first group, guiding them toward a path of self-awareness where their experiences with me lead to positive outcomes. Their blocks, fears, or taboos should become gateways to self-love. And naturally, I guide those in the second group on their beautiful journey toward self-expansion.
Furthermore, my interest extends to the spiritual aspect of sexuality. I delved into tantra long before BDSM, and upon exploring the latter, I realized they share more common ground than I initially thought. I enjoy leading the submissive into states of trance, acceptance, and surrender akin to deep meditative states.
While I emphasize the psychological aspect as foundational, I also engage in a wide array of physical practices, which I relish as personal fetishes. As a connoisseur of elegance, I prefer to discuss these matters in private. I specialize in inducing adoration as a fundamental element, often centered around foot worship, feminization (including sissy training and baptism), and clinical themes, among others.
I conduct an initial screening based on your presentation. I value elegance and proper manners. While I welcome novices, you must possess a basic understanding of how to address me. This is merely a glimpse of what is required.
I speak English, Spanish, and Italian.
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